Communciation places a big part in our life. I communciated with people everyday. Meeting different people everyday. Although we are all speaking in english, for each we have our very own ways of speaking. There are some people who i really hate to communciate with. And there are some people i just cant commuciate with. Most of the time, i will just ignored them or rather gossip about them at their back. However, this ways of treating people in fact doesnt help. It shows that i am a person who is more like living in myself own world and not being open-mind. So the question is why not? So does it going to help me be a better person? ....... Having this thought happened when i was going home with this colleague. It is like a toture to me. I just cant communciate to him.
Just when i was typing this, boss came in and call me for a talk. From the conversation, he feel that i need to improved. He feels that my networking wasnt up there. I need to expand my network circle and hope to see me interact with different people more. I admit, i am kinda of the quiet when first meeting with a stranger. But after the first meet, i will get myself to open more to them. Hmm.... this is not say not good. But the networking skills wasnt up there. He is expecting to see myself getting around to be able to network well even on the first meet. First impression is very important. ........ So to improve, i need to be open minded. Shouldnt expect people to change to suit my way of talking. Should accept others who they are and use my skill i have to conquer them. The idea is, the more i interact with different people the more i will improved. The most important thing is i need to be open-minded. There are alot of real life example in work when some being very confidence about themselves and not open-minded. This in turn, make these people not successful in life and work. And i realise they keep blaming others that cause what they are now. As a third party, i see them as not improving. I see them as they are not willing to accept others suggestion and they strongly believe in themselve which really doesnt really work in a team.
Learning point- level up my networking skill.
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